Toi et Moi: The Engagement Ring Style Everyone’s Talking About This Season

It’s officially engagement season! That magical time between late fall and Valentine’s Day when love is in the air, and your feed is full of the 4 C’s and “I said yes” moments. And while solitaires and halos will always have their moment, there’s one style taking the spotlight (again): the Toi et Moi ring.

What “Toi et Moi” Actually Means

Literally translated from French, Toi et Moi means “You and Me.” It’s a design that features two stones, side by side, symbolizing the union of two souls. Romantic, right? But this isn’t just a modern trend; it’s a love story that’s been told through jewelry for centuries. 

A Brief (and Glamorous) History

The Toi et Moi style dates back to the 18th century, but it truly became iconic in 1796 when Napoleon Bonaparte proposed to Joséphine de Beauharnais with a two-stone sapphire and diamond ring. Since then, the design has resurfaced again and again– from Jackie Kennedy’s emerald and diamond engagement ring to the creative asymmetrical modern versions we see today.

Joséphine de Beauharnais engagement ring from Napoleon Bonaparte 

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Every pairing tells a different story– yours. 

It’s romantic, symbolic, and uniquely customizable, making it perfect for couples who want something meaningful and modern. 

The Modern Toi et Moi

In 2025, this timeless design has evolved into something more personal than ever. From minimal bands with two small gems to bold, sculptural pieces that merge art and love, the Toi et Moi ring can be as understated or statement-making as you want. 

At Sarah Elise Jewelry, we love the versatility this style offers. It’s a dream for custom designs! Whether you’re blending birthstones, choosing contrasting cuts, or working pure gold with a soft diamond hue, the Toi et Moi style is the ultimate canvas for personalization.

Classic Diamond Toi et Moi Ring, Evie

 

The design has even made its way into pop culture with styles seen on Ariana Grande’s Oval Diamond and Pearl ring, Delaney Childs, and many other stars.

Ariana Grande's Oval Diamond and Pearl Engagement Ring

Delaney Child's Canary and White Diamond Engagement Ring

 

Love in Perfect Balance

Two stones. One story. Endless ways to make it yours. 

As engagement season unfolds, Toi et Moi continues to prove that love– like great design– is all about balance, individuality, and timeless connection.

Toi et Moi Engagement Ring, Grace

 

Explore our customizable engagement ring collection and create the pairing that speaks to your story.